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There are many types of stubbornness. The kind that refuses to budge once a decision has been reached, and another kind that is based on the misguided knowledge that one is absolutely right. The latter is a major Ego problem much in our world that creates rifts in most professional and personal relationships. Resist the impulse to judge or blame others or adopt a polarizing position. Be open to new information about any potential relationships. Fight your mind and cultural programming that tempts you to fight or run, jumping to judgmental conclusions and opposing any possible positive interest every step of the way. However, this usually results in an increasingly polarized situation. If you intend to keep any new relationship (you desire) moving forward, this is not the most advantageous place to go.

If you want to improve things, you may want to stay clear of taking sides, even your own. What may work is for you and the other person to move from a personal point of view to a shared point of view — even though you will still have differences. Pause for a moment, refuse to react. Sheath your sword in favor of listening to your loved ones (or professional relationships) more closely. Like attracts like, and if you want to win the heart, show and give your heart. Ensure someone who feels more insecure that you are sincere and rock-steady by listening and eliciting with your Soul. Always be present. Give yourself.

Avoid absolute words like “always” and “never” in emotionally charged situations. Be open and compassionate when listening to what others say, even if it makes you uncomfortable. Self-scrutiny is always a great thing for your growth for it gives you an opportunity to review and reset your standards for the relationships you want.

When you are much more self-aware of your own foibles and flaws, humbling yourself, you can turn any potential embarrassment into an opportunity to learn and grow with honesty. Let correction take place. Steer your ship back to the center channel where you can move with the current, the natural flow. If you are diligent and honest with yourself and others, this opens a chance to set a relationship situation back on course.

Chastisement may be meted out only if you are greedy or, conversely, self-negating. Justice demands an appropriate investment by all participants. This may present an excellent opportunity to raise your standards as well as your self-esteem.

Holding on to Egotistical stubborn pride is usually what is holding you back. It takes a tremendous commitment and real passion to make any relationship succeed. The choice is yours, so use it wisely.


It’s fascinating how many people truly contribute to the phrase, “talk is cheap”. Talking is great, but for the most part people are just blowing hot air. They are flaky and unreliable. Even apologies are meaningless because people don’t know how to apologize. Yes, I had to write a short manual for Dummies for that. If you are one of them who keep hurting people with your ignorant intentions, I suggest you get down to the basics and read this.

So many clueless and yet, they are the loudest who scream for world change. Why not start within you? How do measure up? Are you living a hypocritical life? Can you be counted on your promises? Do your words have honor? Do your deeds prove unshakeable integrity?

I was taught when I was a teenager that integrity is when you do the right thing when no one sees you. It is just you and your conscience. Nothing is really hidden if you are spiritually gifted and have clue about how Soul contracts and journeys work.

Integrity and character go hand in hand. I wrote a bit about character on my Facebook, which I hope help wake up some people:

“It is not by what we say or do that our worth is measured, but by what we are. Good character is more to be praised than outstanding talent. Most talents are, to some extent, a gift. Good character, by contrast, is not given to us. We have to build it piece by piece — by thought, choice, courage and determination.

How do we develop character? First, we decide what it is that we value. A value is one of many goals that we consider more important than passing desires. It is the rudder of a ship that guides us to our destination. And the fuel for the ship is self-control.

To know one’s character, you only need to SEE if they can preach a better sermon with their life than with their words.

To grow in character, we should take advantage of every opportunity. No matter how full a reservoir of maxims one may possess, and no matter how good one’s sentiments may be, if one has not taken advantage of every concrete opportunity to act, one’s character may remain entirely unaffected for the better. Look at the world. Talk is REALLY cheap.

If we are lacking in character, blaming our circumstances for our weaknesses is just like blaming the mirror for the way we look. Instead of casting blame, we need to cast a new mold. We need to keep chipping away at our faults. Although one cannot control the length of their life, they can control its breadth, depth, and height through character development. In fact, there’s no limit to the height we can attain by remaining on the level.

Our character defines who we are. It’s what we will be remembered for. A good character is the best tombstone. Carve your name on hearts, and not on marble.

Fame is what you have taken, character is what you give. When you awaken to this TRUTH, then you begin to live.”

When you learn to allow your personal integrity to be your guide, your sense of feeling alone will vanish. Your personal will can then emerge so that you will stand in your truth.

Let go of your old thinking and embrace a new way of viewing yourself and the world.

There’s no other path to true World Peace. Individuals must be willing to walk the talk, speak the truth (yes, HONESTY is indeed a lonely word), know their Soul’s and life’s mission, and balance past, present, and future in the NOW. No games. No procrastination. No empty promises. We are in this TOGETHER.

Shape shift that old reality and become your future self. Let us build our future peaceful world. TODAY. NOW.

May this MEMO really get into your senses.

With love, Planet Earth’s Chief Bullshit and Ego Police Department

TRUTH is a very heavy burden and responsibility just like #LOVE, therefore few care to carry and practice it. Yet, they walk hand in hand and require corresponding act.

TRUTH, even when in front of one’s nose requires a constant struggle for the Ego. This is the reason why relationships fail. One or both parties are too proud to submit to TRUTH.

TRUTH is scarce for the supply of denial has always been in excess of the demand. Many are unprepared for TRUTH for they have been weaned in political correctness. Majority are not used to the unsugarcoated pill thanks to the brainwashing of everyone since childhood through media, education and their governments, which is why TRUTH has to be revealed progressively.

People prefer the lies and half-truths because they are beautiful and charming.

TRUTH is not difficult to see. It is very obvious and visible at a glance. People choose denial when they err because this is more comfortable.

TRUTH is the most deadly weapon ever discovered by Humanity. It is capable of destroying entire perceptual sets, beliefs, cultures, and realities, and it is outlawed by all governments, leaders, groups and individuals everywhere. Whoever possesses such weapon is normally punishable by disassociation or at worse, death.

Candor and straightforward real honest communication is a double-edged sword; it may heal or it may separate. It takes real character and courage to acknowledge TRUTH.

TRUTH is a “hate speech” and insult to those who have something to hide and are dishonest within themselves.

Real humility is nothing but TRUTH, and pride is nothing but lying and denial.

Our world is under great threat by sincere ignorance, fear, false humility, conscientious stupidity and united in error, all founded under the blankets of knowledge based on lies.